
Am i not good enough? a question you should never ask anyone else except yourself . do not evaluate yourself according to the standards of individual beings rather measure up against youor own life journey and personal growth . if you are better than you think you were yesterday then that is a progress and it makes you good enough my friend.
maybe some eyes would not see it and won’t acknowledge it too but the eyes that matter would surely give you a pat on the back and celebrate your success. you are yours only competition. competition with others only hinder your personel growth; the people you compare yourself to compare them to other people too and it becomes a vicious cycle. your mind believes what you think. Next time don’t ask “am i good enough?” instead say “i am good enough for myself and that’s more than enough.”
see the problem is not about being good enough, the problem is you thinking you have to be. you are not born to cater likings of every person around you. life is too short to be lived under weight of anxiety and disappointment. It’s easy to hate yourself for your flaws but it’s rather difficult to love yourself for who you are because we were never taught to love ourselves. only you define yourself , no body else bears the right.